What Do I Write in my Thinking of you Gift Message? Simple Words that Speak Volumes

At Susansnaps, one of the most common questions we hear when an order is nearly complete is, “What should I write on the gift card? I’m not sure what to say.” It’s a question that stumps so many of us, especially when we’re trying to offer comfort or show support during tough times.

I get it. Life throws some pretty icky situations our way—cancer diagnoses, health struggles, job loss, the passing of a loved one (or even a pet), medical scares, divorce—the list goes on. These moments often leave us feeling completely speechless, unsure of what to say. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: saying nothing is the worst thing you can do. Even when it feels hard to find the right words, offering a small message can make a world of difference.

Finding the Right Words Can Be Challenging. Saying “I’m Thinking of You” Says It All

Words—no matter how simple—carry power. Even if you can’t find the “perfect” thing to say, a few thoughtful words can mean so much to someone who is hurting. My go-to phrase has always been “I am thinking of you.” It’s a small sentence, but it speaks volumes. It lets the other person know they aren’t alone and that someone cares about them. And truly, this phrase works for just about any situation. Whether someone is battling illness, recovering from surgery, or navigating a tough personal moment, knowing they’re in someone’s thoughts can bring immense comfort.

My mom, as you know co-founded Susansnaps with me, helps so many of our customers daily with this exact sentiment for their gift messages. She often tells people that “I’m thinking of you!” really says it all. When she was my (and my Dad’s) caretaker during cancer treatment, those words meant the world to her too. It was comforting for her to hear that people were thinking of both of us. She’s seen firsthand how often people don’t know what to say—they’re at a loss for words in tough moments—but this simple phrase makes all the difference.

Cancer, of course, is a subject near and dear to our hearts (because we lived it). When I was going through chemo, I saw firsthand how difficult it can be for people to know what to say. But, hearing things like “Hang in there” or “Stay strong” was uplifting and gave me that little boost of encouragement I needed to keep going. Even when my son was born as a micro preemie, those same simple words—“I’m thinking of you”—helped me through one of the scariest times of my life. It reminded me that I wasn’t alone in the fight, that people cared about what I was going through.

A Little Kindness Goes a Long Way in Difficult Times. Simple Words, Big Impact: Meaningful Messages Matter Most.

So, if you ever find yourself at a loss for words when sending a gift, remember that it’s okay to keep it simple. You don’t have to have the “perfect” thing to say—you just have to say something. And if you’re not sure what to write, try starting with a heartfelt “I’m thinking of you.” I promise, it will mean more to the person than you realize.

Message Ideas for Your Thinking of You Gift Cards:

If you need a little more inspiration, here are a few simple but heartfelt message ideas that work for just about any occasion:

“I’m thinking of you and sending my love.”
“Hang in there—you’ve got this.”
“Wishing you comfort and strength during this time.”
“Sending you lots of love and positive thoughts.”
“Here for you, always.”
“Take it one day at a time, and know you’re never alone.”

Remember, it’s not about the length of the message or finding the “perfect” words. It’s about showing up for someone in a way that feels genuine and caring. And pairing those kind words with a thoughtful thinking of you gift or get well gift from Susansnaps only adds to the joy and comfort you’re offering.

Explore Our Thinking of You Gifts

If you’re looking for the perfect way to express your sentiments, check out our range of thinking of you gifts, thinking of you presents, and get well gifts. Each option is crafted with love to help you convey your thoughts in the most delicious way possible.